Kink: Another State of Mind

Feminine fantasies are a little less explicit in comparison to male ones. In fact, women appear to be more involved with their own emotional responses than with the characteristics of figures that form part of their imaginations. Their fantasies frequently include descriptions of their imagined selves, which are different from woman to woman and vary in degree of strangeness and oddity. You’d be amazed at actually how many women like kinky stuff.

Kink is a state of mind wherein the ordinary becomes extraordinary. And the truth of the matter is that most women, if not all, like some form of kink or the other. Next time you feel the urge to slap him hard while you’re riding him, think of other things you’d like to do that are way out of character for you. That’s precisely your very own kink.

Some women may be too shy to approach this subject with their lovers, simply because ‘good’ girls aren’t supposed to like chains and whips. Here are some kinky ideas you might want to try out sometime. He, of course, would be astoundingly surprised and probably more welcome to your kinks...

Gizmos and gadgets
Sex toys are used during both foreplay and intercourse, and they add fun, variety and excitement to your sex life. They are a great way to receive stimulation that may otherwise be difficult and tiring to sustain. If you’re not getting enough of clitoral stimulation, or are not usually satisfied unless you’ve had multiple orgasms, sex toys are a great addition to your normal sex habits. There’s lots of kinky variation in these gizmos available in the market... You can buy them in just about any shape you could think up! There are plenty of dildos, dongs, vibrators, penis extensions, anal sex toys and more to choose from. The most popular ones, of course, are those shaped like male sex organs... Oh, and we like bunnies too, don’t we, girls?

Anal Sex
Every woman has unique tastes when it comes to sexual stimulation. Some women find anal sex absolutely electrifying, but most are just shy to bring up the subject no matter how fascinating they think the experience would be. There is absolutely nothing wrong with anal sex, if it gives you more pleasure than pain. And no, you’re not the solitary straight woman who’d like to have something stuffed up your behind. There’s no harm in trying, but don’t force yourself to like it either. This requires plenty, and we mean PLENTY, of lube... Who knows, you might just find something that drives you over the top!

Role plays
Role plays can be plenty of fun, provided they are done with elegantly and with a bit of sophistication. Pretending you are somebody else allows you to venture onto places you wouldn’t usually go. It means you are voluntarily forcing yourself to go outside your comfort zone. Some popular role plays are Headmistress-Pupil (spank away!), Boss-Secretary (lust and power), Photographer-Model (look, but don’t touch), Striper-Client (sex without the emotion), and plenty more... However, always make sure you talk about your plan prior to engaging in role plays. If there’s the slightest chance your partner may feel unhappy about it, you’re probably better off finding yourself another role. Fetishes are normal and fun, but just be sensitive to the lengths you’re asking your partner to go to fulfill yours.

Three is company too
More women than you could possibly account for fancy this sort of a kink! Threesomes are not like regular sex though; they require both creativity and dollops of sensitivity. You need to get into the situation with some idea of what you're going to be doing. For the more adventurous and thrill-seeking woman, adding someone new into the picture might be quite a kinky idea. You must remember that threesomes could be dangerous for any relationship, and they must be handled with immense care and a lot of planning.

Dirty dancing
It’s no secret that most guys would love to see their women dance for them in an erotic and sexy way. Some couples even stretch that thought enough to have poles installed in their bedrooms for the very purpose. Lap dances and pole dances are very popular foreplay practices that turn men on. But have you ever given thought to how well he would fare with that pole? He might actually be better than you expect! And if he’s not, you could probably ask him to take a few lessons from tapes.

Aggressive love
So, some women fancy S&M... Nothing really disturbing about that! Some women have an aching fantasy of bossing their men around just as a typically kinky thing to do; this might be way out of character for them in reality. The man in turn must be completely submissive and give in to each of her tantrums. This can actually lead to be more entertaining for the man, really. On the other hand, it might get a little painful sometimes, so before your hardcore flogging ritual begins, make sure you’ve established a verbal code, so you know when to stop yourself when he says it.

Masturbation show
Who says masturbation is meant to be done only in private? Many women like to watch their men masturbate as a live performance of sorts... This probably arises from the natural curiosity and the genuine desire to learn how to handle his penis the way he likes it. If this has ever featured in your fantasy list, it is a nice way to make him feel that you care enough to want to know how to pleasure him correctly.